Being an emotional system is powerful and creative.
Individual, group, family, community and society - do all your systems honours emotions?
Personally, I have to work hard to stay in a place where I honour the emotional systems that show up within me, and between me and those around me.
I can only assume it will be hard for you and your systems too. So let's do this with humility. It's a journey, not a destination, so let's play on the way.